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I know you're not easily insulted, but...O_O XD

I probably would've said the same thing if the insult was aimed towards me, I probably just didn't expect it

I get it. XD

That was some kind of fucked up complement.
Now you know why I'm single.

Oh don't worry. There are girls out there that find this cute. Like me, for example. You'll find someone eventually. How old are you again?

Again 14.
But I'm the most unsocial guy I've ever met.
And I'm ugly.
And my family's poor.
And I have some problems with health and physical condition.

Good point is that I'm not addicted to anything (alcohol, cigarettes, drugs) but for many people it's flaw.

Again 14.
But I'm the most unsocial guy I've ever met.
And I'm ugly.
And my family's poor.
And I have some problems with health and physical condition.

Good point is that I'm not addicted to anything (alcohol, cigarettes, drugs) but for many people it's flaw.

1) You'll become more free in time, when you meet people that suit you.
2) How do you know? Maybe you're not. Well, at least you're not to someone. Also, did you know that ugly guys can get girls all the time? If someone is right for you, why would something like this stop your love?

Protip: when girl likes a boy, he instantly looks better for her! I know what I'm saying, I'm a girl.
3) Poorness is the LAST thing that should stop you from finding your better half. When you find someone who's right, she won't mind that you're poor. Again, I speak from my own experience.
4) Don't worry, that's not a big deal. If you don't make a big deal out of it yourself, that is.
5) That IS NOT a flaw. Don't blame yourself for the fact that society is twisted nowadays. Being addicted is not something good.


And last but not least, you're only 14, there's plenty of time! (It can seem hypocritical that I'm saying this and I'm only one year older than you, but I'm trying to help and I got into a relationship purely by accident. )

Of course I know all of this.
I heard that too many times.
But we live in a twisted times.
And with being unsocial it's deeper.
I was growing up alone (only child, father abroad, not much time outside due to lack of health) and stuff. When I went to school I didn't care about the others, they were nothing to me. Now I understand a little bit more and I don't think like that any more, but my social skills are still poor.
Also I'm very tolerant, everything I know about society and world was shaped by my parent's, but this a big flow in my society.
Also growing up alone made me a bit crazy. Literally, talking to myself, all the time, loudly. Talking to things around. Talking to animals(I have four cats).
I also gets very stressed in contacts with other people, even if I know them.
That all makes me very uneasy guy.
Also I have many bad points of character, like lazynes, shelfishness, egoism, narcism and recklessnes.

borys610 wrote: Also growing up alone made me a bit crazy. Literally, talking to myself, all the time, loudly.

Also, if you think you are poor, get a part time job.

And believe me, all you said about yourself, you are not alone.

Anyway, back to funny stuff:

I was growing up alone (only child, father abroad, not much time outside due to lack of health) and stuff. When I went to school I didn't care about the others, they were nothing to me. Now I understand a little bit more and I don't think like that any more, but my social skills are still poor.

Well, I guess I could relate to some extent since I've never been much with other children for the first 6 years of my life. I was always around adults, either my parents, family or neighbours, with which I still have an intimate relationship today. They were like my second parents cause I was spending so much time with them. There were never a lot of children where I used to live so I got used to being around fully matured people. Then we moved when I went to school and stayed at the new location for 2 years, those years being the best time of my early childhood. Then we moved to a bigger city and I was simply lost. Peers were mean to me cause I was shy and smart - typical introverted child. I was lonely for a couple of years and then I became a cold bitch so no one would hurt me anymore. My social skills were horrible. Then I came to high school and now I'm completely free - I have few real friends and I am mostly happy.

So yeah, I understand you. And I understand that it's not easy to talk to people, I still have some troubles with that - I just don't know what to talk about sometimes. I bet you have that too, eh? I can't tell you other than this: practice. Even chatting with your family and such helps.

Also growing up alone made me a bit crazy. Literally, talking to myself, all the time, loudly. Talking to things around. Talking to animals(I have four cats).
I also gets very stressed in contacts with other people, even if I know them.

It's not that weird if you were growing up alone and someone will understand that. When you meet that person, that's it. You have a friend.

Also I have many bad points of character, like lazynes, shelfishness, egoism, narcism and recklessnes.

We all have a bit of those in ourselves. Just look around and you'll notice.

borys610 wrote:Literally, talking to myself, all the time, loudly. Talking to things around. Talking to animals(I have four cats).

I do this.

Maybe we should move to thread "much more information about our personal live, than we should publish in the Internet".

Also, talking to yourself is normal, but not when you do it aloud on the street. And not when you explain something you understand, to unexistant person that does not. Or when you actually catch yourself thinking that there is somebody who listens to you.

That is kinda normal too. I know of a friend that does that, she says it helps her organize her thoughts.