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Gemini wrote:Bisexual implies that I have sexual relations with both men and women

not.. really. i mean, that would imply that all virgins are asexual? your sexual orientation is not rigidly defined by your sexual experiences. it's not like there don't exist closeted gay people who form real and stable families in a relation with a woman

yeah, I think you can in most cases know if you're attracted to men or women or both without needing to have sex, no?

Yeah, I'm straight and I didn't had sex yet. :p

ENIHCAMBUS wrote:Yeah, I'm straight and I didn't had sex yet. :p

Dito:

Guys, I don't think Gem meant that his process of self-identification should be used to categorize everyone. He is not a virgin and it is hardly surprising he'd take his sexual experiences into account when thinking about his sexuality.

Anteroinen wrote:Guys, I don't think Gem meant that his process of self-identification should be used to categorize everyone. He is not a virgin and it is hardly surprising he'd take his sexual experiences into account when thinking about his sexuality.

I know that.
I prefer a relationship grown from a non-internet related beginning. The more friends grown into something more path.

And Hey! I might find one guy friend who friendship status might grow into something more. Only Time will tell.

Sometimes I'll say that I can become attracted to a girl and people say "Oh so you're not actually gay, but bisexual or straight with gay tendancies"

No. I'm a gay male, that has experienced attraction for women. And by that, its strictly physical attraction. There is a difference between physical and sexual attraction.

For example, Error. I find him physically attractive having seen his offline photo, but sexually? No. He's just a handsome guy. But then I try not to base attraction on a photo, because a photo is just a photo. The same would go for Worldisquiet, but I can assure you, nothing sexual. You're just good looking

But then we go over... to the sexual attraction side. For example:



I would totally sleep with Ronald Weasley. So fucking hot!

Torchwood: Caption Jack Harkness and Ianto Jones

Gemini wrote:No. I'm a gay male, that has experienced attraction for women. And by that, its strictly physical attraction. There is a difference between physical and sexual attraction.

Thats not uncommon from most gay people.

Actualy, they are womans who have sexual intercourse with other woman who are their best friend, and yet they're straight. They just find that an expression of greater friendship rather than lesbianism.